Hi, I’m Jessica. The J in JMSWonders. It’s so nice to meet you. I hope you’re ready for a new you.

I didn’t think I was when my life started to change in ways I didn’t expect or was prepared for but being on the other side and able to look back now I can see how it was all for the better.

A better me.

A happier and more confident me.

I can help you navigate the instabilities life throws our way when change is needed.

Let me tell you about my life and my impossible year. My hope is that it will give you the confidence in me to engage so I can help you with your hardships.

August 2022; my husband of 12 years had an episodic break in his mental health due to a confusing visit with my oldest child from a previous marriage. This break was much different than the previous ones due to his resistance to the medications that help.

That visit was the beginning of the impossible year.

Over the course of the next 12 months, I would be promoted at work, receive a pay cut because someone within the company didn’t understand my job functions, become to sole provider for my household when my husband’s mental health issues caused him to lose his job, file for divorce, watch my now ex-husband unravel further, daily explain to my youngest child that Daddy’s behaviors were not okay ways to speak and treat anyone, pack up mine and my child’s home and lives and move halfway across the country with and 2 cats.

We now live with my mom and help her with the daily home care, and I help her understand her own 35-year marriage was not perfect. That she herself was abused in a similar manner as what I had left.

Throughout this impossible year my body paid the toll that all the overwhelm demanded. I lost enough weight to cause the doctors concern at my yearly checkup. My BMI was now being monitored, and it was suggested that anti-anxiety and anti-depressants may help. While I felt less stressed with them, my body continued to advise there was still a problem. I weighted 145lb in August of 2022, and in January of 2024 when i arrived at my mom’s home, I weight just 101 lbs. I am happy to report I am not longer taking anti-anxiety or anti-depressants and have gained some weight back but still have a way to go.

I now live a healthier and happier life.

This is what I want to share with you.

How to overcome the terrible things life gives us in order to grow. Had my impossible year not happened I would be here now to help you.

**My daughter speaks to her father on a daily basis now. He is a good person and has been receiving more appropriate care and now sees what I meant when I asked him to seek help before.

There will be hard work to be done. There will be tears. There will be sadness as you release the old thought patterns and behaviors.

But there will also be joy and happiness as your life begins to improve for the better.

Together we will carefully analyze the root cause of the problems and seek new ways of dealing with them.

You are the master of your life, let me show you how to reign in everything you feel is out of control.